Are You Traumatised?

Trauma is when an individual is emotional damaged… which is 99.9% of us. Yet, the defense structures that have evolved over 100,000’s of years to protect the vulnerable and easily damaged human organisms ‘suppresses/buries’ that emotional damage within a split second, fooling us into thinking, we have ‘gotten over it’ and the event of trauma will not impact us.  Not so.

This is the ‘Gross’ as in obvious category of trauma. Sexual Abuse, Rape, War Trauma, Accidents, Physical, Emotional and Mental abuse from a parent etc. It is OBVIOUS TRAUMA. Some say people with this category of trauma are the lucky ones as they know what is behind there issue like depression, an OBVIOUS/GROSS Trauma.

Subtle usually falls into the category of ‘normal’, so people miss the fact that they are also majorly traumatized, do not realize it as they have experienced SUBTLE trauma, and can spend a lifetime trying to find the mysterious cause behind their issue such as depression. It is only through Cathartic Breathwork that we have been able to uncover how deep and easily we are hurt through supposedly ‘normal’ occurrences in life.

• Conception trauma – Most people are here to fill in a void for a parent or two.
• Womb Trauma, such as listening to a father not wanting another child whilst in the womb and deciding you are ‘Not Wanted’.
• Birth Trauma – a list of trauma cases so long that even if we devoted this whole website we would not have enough space to list and describe the variations of Birth Trauma.
• Circumcision Trauma – The boy child does not look into his mothers eyes after circumcision due to the feelings of betrayal. 90% of Rape, Violence towards women, sado-masochistic sexual violence is perpetrated by circumcised men still getting out their rage at mum back.
• Infancy Trauma – helpless, hopeless, needed emotional love needs for 2/3 years.
• Specific Parent Trauma –Such as controlling/ invalidating father, smother mother, sibling issues etc.
• Unmet Emotional Love Needs –For example your parents not speaking your love language.
• Words of Affirmation – people who need to hear ”I love you”, “I am so happy we are together”, “you complete my life” etc.
•  Gifts – Receiving gifts is the main way others feel loved, hence they naturally give gifts to express their love for others.
• Acts of Service – Some people need things done for them, car, room, office cleaned, driven around etc. to feel love.
• Physical Contact – Hugs, touch, kissing, sex, love making.
• Quality Time – when a parent stops, is out of their head and fully present to the child, without distractions, love enters the child through the eyes. Consciousness is love as Yogis tell us.
• School Trauma – Confusion, inappropriate teacher behaviour, teasing, confusing etc.
• Religious Trauma – Massive, too long to describe.

And this is only half of the traumas we have been able to discover due to Cathartic Breathwork and it’s un-equalled ability to open up the unconscious mind by temporarily displacing the defense barrier between conscious and unconscious mind.